Resources

Blogs

• Bad Girl's Bible

• Dom Sub Living

• Kink Your Way

• Kinkly

• Smex Ed

• Submissive Guide

Books

• The ABCs of BDSM by Dama deNoche
• BDSM Basics for Beginners by Michelle Fegatofi
• The BDSM Contract Book by Michelle Fegatofi
• BDSM the Naked Truth by Charlie Ferrer
• Building the Team: Cooperative Power Dynamic Relationships by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny
• Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex by Gloria G. Brame
• Consensual Sadomasochism: How to Talk About It & How To Do It Safely by William A. Henkin and Sybil Holiday
• Different Loving: A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance & Submission by Gloria G. Brame, Jon Jacobs and William D. Brame
• Discipline: Adding Rules & Discipline To Your BDSM Relationship by Lily Lloyd
• Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook by Michael Makai
• Domination & Submission: A Guide for Dominants & Submissives Starting to Explore the Lifestyle by Michael Makai
• Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W Hardy
• How to be Kinky: A Beginners Guide to BDSM by Morpheous
• Leading & Supportive Love: The Truth About Dominant & Submissive Relationships by Chris M Lyon
• Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe & Fun S/M Lovemaking by Race Bannon
• Michael Makai's Little Book of BDSM Quotes by Michael Makai
• The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Eason and Janet W Hardy
• The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W Hardy
• Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships by Jack Rinella
• Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Navigating, & Exploring the Kink, Leather, & BDSM Community by Lee Harrington
• Protocols Handbook for the Female Slave by Robert J Rubel
• Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM & Beyond by Lee Harrington
• Safe, Sane, Consensual and Fun by John Warren
• Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples by Patrick Califia
• Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, & Relationships by Stella Harris
• The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM Roleplay & the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
• The Warrior Princess Submissive by Michael Makai
• Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink by Midori

Podcasts

• 2 Be Better

• Pink Kink

Shops

• Asparkii

• Cliterally the Best

• Cuffstore

• Curven Peach

• Firebird Leather

• Kinkly

• Wild Flower Sex

Social Media

• FetLife
• FetLife - Kinktionary 
• an in-depth glossary of terms, abbreviations, and concepts
  

 Discord

• Kink Family Mafia

    Facebook

        Groups

• Alternative B-D-S-M Lifestyle Discussions and Education

• B.D.S.M

• The College of Dominance and Submission

• Consenting Dominants & Submissives in Community

• Dom & Sub Learning Safe Harbor 18+

• The Four Pillars - Fetlife and More UK

• Free the Kink

• The Kink Family

• Lifestyle Discussion & Inspiration

• Lifestyle Education and Community

• Submissive's Circle

        Pages

• BDSM Education

• Cliterally the Best

• Cryptid Counseling

• Dr. Justin Lehmiller - Sex and Psychology

• Obedience

• Pan-Sexual; We Love Pans

• Society of Australian Sexologists

• Take Back the Night Foundation

    Instagram

• annie_undone

• chattingwiththelightkeeper

• devour.alt

• everydaysubmission

• faerie.glamour

• _fetlife_

• hedonisttribe

• julietachiara

• kimoftheinternet

• kindredtiesnyc

• kinkcompass

• kinkybestie

• knowyournorm

• littlespaces.co

• loveysubby

• lovingds1

• obedience.app

• queeringsex

• queersextherapy

• samhaingirl_x

• thekinkery

• thewisedomme

• xolady_bambi

    TikTok

• followchipper

Downloads

• Lifestyle Journal Template - by SamhainGirl
• Lifestyle Roadmap - by DomSubLiving.com
• Negotiation Guide & Worksheet - by Unearthed Pleasures

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